Category: Tips

Are You in Love with a…

The trouble with the term “narcissist” is that it is used liberally, when a very…

Therapy Isn’t Something to Be Ashamed…

As a therapist, as well as someone who goes to therapy, I can speak firsthand…

The Key to Love

Multiple studies have been conducted exploring the idea that two people can develop a close…

Unseen Trauma, Shame, Codependency

The trauma of being unseen often lies at the root of both shame and codependency,…

Sex, Sex, and More Sex

Sex is often the cornerstone of a good relationship. Sure, it’s possible to have a…

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids…

Understanding “Bids” in Relationships Dr. John Gottman, a leading relationship researcher, introduced the concept of…

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why You Feel So Alone Together

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why…

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why You Feel So Alone Together When couples first come…

Choose Your Partner

A friend told me that every time her husband touches her arm with affection, which…

What and How ADHD Affects Relationships

What ADHD Is in a Relationship Context ADHD isn’t just about distractibility or hyperactivity. It’s…

Rumination vs Reflection In Relationships

Ah, going even deeper — I love it.When it comes to relationships, the difference between…

Is She/He Right for You?

In the rush of a new relationship, you stay up all night talking. You can’t…

Gaslighting vs Respect

That’s a really important contrast to look at — gaslighting vs. respect in relationships —…