Don’t Hit the Wall This Holiday Season

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It’s the holiday season and while that's often a happy thing, it's also a stressful time. There's so much to…

Types of Criticism: Expressing Concern or Complaint without Harm Learn how to identify the first of the four horsemen

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The "Four Horsemen" of relationship communication, identified by psychologist John Gottman, are patterns that can lead to conflict and disconnection.…

Don’t Be Rude, Dude

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So, you’re at the ballgame. You’re jostling popcorn and a couple of fully-loaded hot dogs that you’re passing to your…

How To Handle Holidays, Family and Communications

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Holidays often bring joy and celebration, but they can also come with challenges, particularly around family dynamics and communication. Here…

Develop Your Emotional Intelligence Skills

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I have a friend whose father, in a fit of disdain, said to her, “You’re so emotional.” It was not…

Be Your Own Advocate

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Stand up for yourself. We all know people who do not need this advice. They are more than capable of…

The Criticism Defensiveness Cycle

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One of the most common of the Four Horsemen is criticism. The Four Horsemen are what Dr. John Gottman calls the dynamics…

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

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When two people have been in a committed relationship for a long time, a certain sense of familiarity develops.  If…

When It Comes to Your Emotions, Be Specific

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Have you ever noticed that people who are really good at their endeavors have a full vocabulary to describe it?…

Are You Enmeshed in a Relationship?

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If you are overly, inappropriately, involved in someone else’s personal life, you are enmeshed. Often, this happens between parents and…