Unseen Trauma Shame and Codependcy

11 months ago

The trauma of being unseen often lies at the root of both shame and codependency, quietly shaping how we relate…

Reconnecting When You’re at Loggerheads

11 months ago

When you’re locked in conflict, it’s tempting to throw away the key. After all, your partner refuses to compromise, and…

Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships

11 months ago

In The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Dr. John Gottman’s research found that 69% of problems in a relationship are…

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

12 months ago

When two people have been in a committed relationship for a long time, a certain sense of familiarity develops.  If…

Am I Too Traumatized to be in a Relationship?

12 months ago

Your dating difficulties are not caused by something about you that’s permanently flawed. If you’ve experienced trauma, being vulnerable in…

What Does It Mean to Commit?

12 months ago

If you are in a long and lasting relationship, chances are, the cornerstone of it is commitment. Maybe when you…

Red Flags vs. Growth Areas: How to Distinguish and Navigate Them

1 year ago

Relationships bring out the best and the worst in us. Some challenges are opportunities to grow together, while others signal…

Control Your Over-controlling Behavior

1 year ago

There’s a lot to be said for being in control. You feel confident and secure when you’re in charge. You…

Solid Advice for Solid Relationships

1 year ago

Every couple has a different path and a unique relationship. But most couples have a similar goal, and that is…

How Do Arguments Affect Relationships Over Time?

1 year ago

While conflict is inevitable, frequent arguments will affect a relationship over time. Couples that do not effectively manage conflict will…