The Key to Love

11 months ago

Multiple studies have been conducted exploring the idea that two people can develop a close relationship by sharing their most…

Unseen Trauma, Shame, Codependency

11 months ago

The trauma of being unseen often lies at the root of both shame and codependency, quietly shaping how we relate…

Sex, Sex, and More Sex

11 months ago

Sex is often the cornerstone of a good relationship. Sure, it’s possible to have a wonderful relationship without it, but…

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

11 months ago

Understanding "Bids" in Relationships Dr. John Gottman, a leading relationship researcher, introduced the concept of bids — small, everyday attempts…

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why You Feel So Alone Together

12 months ago

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why You Feel So Alone Together When couples first come together, it feels like magic.…

Choose Your Partner

12 months ago

A friend told me that every time her husband touches her arm with affection, which is every morning as they…

What and How ADHD Affects Relationships

1 year ago

What ADHD Is in a Relationship Context ADHD isn’t just about distractibility or hyperactivity. It’s a neurological difference that affects:…

Rumination vs Reflection In Relationships

1 year ago

Ah, going even deeper — I love it.When it comes to relationships, the difference between rumination and reflection becomes even…

Is She/He Right for You?

1 year ago

In the rush of a new relationship, you stay up all night talking. You can’t stop thinking about him. And…

Gaslighting vs Respect

1 year ago

That's a really important contrast to look at — gaslighting vs. respect in relationships — because they sit on totally…