Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

11 months ago

Understanding "Bids" in Relationships Dr. John Gottman, a leading relationship researcher, introduced the concept of bids — small, everyday attempts…

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why You Feel So Alone Together

11 months ago

The Trifecta of Tortured Relationships: Why You Feel So Alone Together When couples first come together, it feels like magic.…

Choose Your Partner

11 months ago

A friend told me that every time her husband touches her arm with affection, which is every morning as they…

What and How ADHD Affects Relationships

12 months ago

What ADHD Is in a Relationship Context ADHD isn’t just about distractibility or hyperactivity. It’s a neurological difference that affects:…

Rumination vs Reflection In Relationships

12 months ago

Ah, going even deeper — I love it.When it comes to relationships, the difference between rumination and reflection becomes even…

Is She/He Right for You?

12 months ago

In the rush of a new relationship, you stay up all night talking. You can’t stop thinking about him. And…

Gaslighting vs Respect

1 year ago

That's a really important contrast to look at — gaslighting vs. respect in relationships — because they sit on totally…

Where Is Your Soulmate?

1 year ago

Remember that great line from the movie, Jerry McGuire? The title character tells his girl, “You complete me”. Such a…

Why Do We Get Jealous in Relationships?

1 year ago

Jealousy in relationships is a natural emotional response, often rooted in fear, insecurity, or attachment dynamics. Understanding why we feel…

When Your Phone Is More Important Than Your Partner

1 year ago

When you first met your partner, you couldn’t get enough of him. Your thoughts were often invaded by visions of…