Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships

11 months ago

In The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Dr. John Gottman’s research found that 69% of problems in a relationship are…

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

11 months ago

When two people have been in a committed relationship for a long time, a certain sense of familiarity develops.  If…

Am I Too Traumatized to be in a Relationship?

11 months ago

Your dating difficulties are not caused by something about you that’s permanently flawed. If you’ve experienced trauma, being vulnerable in…

What Does It Mean to Commit?

11 months ago

If you are in a long and lasting relationship, chances are, the cornerstone of it is commitment. Maybe when you…

Red Flags vs. Growth Areas: How to Distinguish and Navigate Them

12 months ago

Relationships bring out the best and the worst in us. Some challenges are opportunities to grow together, while others signal…

Control Your Over-controlling Behavior

12 months ago

There’s a lot to be said for being in control. You feel confident and secure when you’re in charge. You…

Solid Advice for Solid Relationships

1 year ago

Every couple has a different path and a unique relationship. But most couples have a similar goal, and that is…

How Do Arguments Affect Relationships Over Time?

1 year ago

While conflict is inevitable, frequent arguments will affect a relationship over time. Couples that do not effectively manage conflict will…

Old Habits Die Hard

1 year ago

It’s so easy to acquire bad habits, but not so easy to break them. After all, they’re habits, something you…

How Emotion Regulation Can Transform Your Conflict Cycle

1 year ago

When I meet with a new couple, I always ask: How do you self-soothe during and outside ofconflict? While some report having…