Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships

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In The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Dr. John Gottman’s research found that 69% of problems in a relationship are…

When Familiarity Breeds Contempt in a Relationship

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Familiarity in a long-term relationship can go one of two ways--you can feel worn down, lose the romance, and end…

4 Conflict Styles that Hurt Your Relationship Learn how to navigate conflict in a healthy way.

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All couples fight, but not every couple knows how to do it in a healthy way. Further, in the heat…

D is for Defensiveness Defensiveness is a wicked game. But it’s winnable.

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The bride of my youth is delighted that I’m writing about defensiveness. She’s been chuckling under her breath at me…

Resolve to Forgive Yourself in 2025

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We all know that forgiveness is good for the soul. It frees us from the bitterness and anger that accompany…

Don’t Hit the Wall This Holiday Season

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It’s the holiday season and while that's often a happy thing, it's also a stressful time. There's so much to…

Types of Criticism: Expressing Concern or Complaint without Harm Learn how to identify the first of the four horsemen

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The "Four Horsemen" of relationship communication, identified by psychologist John Gottman, are patterns that can lead to conflict and disconnection.…

Don’t Be Rude, Dude

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So, you’re at the ballgame. You’re jostling popcorn and a couple of fully-loaded hot dogs that you’re passing to your…

How To Handle Holidays, Family and Communications

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Holidays often bring joy and celebration, but they can also come with challenges, particularly around family dynamics and communication. Here…

Develop Your Emotional Intelligence Skills

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I have a friend whose father, in a fit of disdain, said to her, “You’re so emotional.” It was not…