Managing vs. Resolving Conflict in Relationships

3 months ago

In The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, Dr. John Gottman’s research found that 69% of problems in a relationship are…

Why Turning Against Your Partner’s Bids Is So Harmful

4 months ago

When two people have been in a committed relationship for a long time, a certain sense of familiarity develops.  If…

Am I Too Traumatized to be in a Relationship?

4 months ago

Your dating difficulties are not caused by something about you that’s permanently flawed. If you’ve experienced trauma, being vulnerable in…

What Does It Mean to Commit?

4 months ago

If you are in a long and lasting relationship, chances are, the cornerstone of it is commitment. Maybe when you…

Red Flags vs. Growth Areas: How to Distinguish and Navigate Them

4 months ago

Relationships bring out the best and the worst in us. Some challenges are opportunities to grow together, while others signal…

Control Your Over-controlling Behavior

5 months ago

There’s a lot to be said for being in control. You feel confident and secure when you’re in charge. You…

Solid Advice for Solid Relationships

5 months ago

Every couple has a different path and a unique relationship. But most couples have a similar goal, and that is…

How Do Arguments Affect Relationships Over Time?

5 months ago

While conflict is inevitable, frequent arguments will affect a relationship over time. Couples that do not effectively manage conflict will…

Old Habits Die Hard

6 months ago

It’s so easy to acquire bad habits, but not so easy to break them. After all, they’re habits, something you…

How Emotion Regulation Can Transform Your Conflict Cycle

6 months ago

When I meet with a new couple, I always ask: How do you self-soothe during and outside ofconflict? While some report having…