It’s not a bad thing to please people. To be thoughtful about other people’s feelings and needs. To be generous…
A traumatic experience changes you. It changes the way you think, how you feel. It even changes the way your…
Human beings are so needful of one another that even those who have terrible experiences with previous relationships still reach…
Being critical of your partner is a sure way to kill your relationship. Yet, what are you supposed to do?…
Last time we talked about the ego defenses people use to mitigate the anxiety we have when we are not…
Defense mechanisms come in handy when you’re trying to justify that you’re still a good person even though you just…
The Dali Lama said the purpose of our lives is to be happy. But is it easier said than done?…
Over time, relationships evolve and change. Resentments can build up, sometimes unbeknownst to one partner or the other. For example,…
Has anyone has ever apologized to you by saying, “I’m sorry you feel that way,” or some variation like, “Gee,…
Yes, you want your partner to be good looking, to be strong and smart and whatever else is on your…