From Love to Despair: Are You an Enabler?

12 years ago

At first you just want to help the one you love. He had a little bit too much to drink…

Mustering Courage to Seek Therapy

12 years ago

Sometimes the people who need therapy the most are the very people who find it hardest to seek help. They’re…

Is My Therapy Working?

12 years ago

It’s easy to see when your friend needs to dial it down at a party. When your cousin’s behavior is…

Dating for Guys

12 years ago

Last week I wrote about dating from a woman's perspective. But what about men? It takes two to tango, and…

Dating in the Digital Age

12 years ago

I have a friend who protested she didn't like the "small talk" required in early dating, and wanted to go…

Is Your Friend Manipulating You?

12 years ago

You're feeling vague resentment, but you're not sure why. Your friend seems to ask more of you, expect more of…

Riding Out Relationship Cycles

12 years ago

Fashion goes in cycles. Palazzo pants, then skinny legs. Mini skirts, then below-the-knee. The economy goes in cycles, too—boom, bust…

Mistakes Even Smart Couples Make

12 years ago

There are different kinds of intelligence. You and your partner may have been good at schoolwork; you may even have…

How a Therapist Can Help You and Your Partner

12 years ago

Effective couples therapy depends on a number of factors. Both partners must be willing to make a change. If one…

Anxious About Anxiety

12 years ago

If you have never suffered from excessive anxiety, then it may be difficult to empathize with someone who has. Anxious…